For Da Ladies!!

Ladies, ladies, ladies! We have got to do better. Why must we make these names for ourselves?... Now I know what you thinking, "Don't be hard on us like you were hard on the guys the first time....you damn skippy I was hard on them. They needed that if anybody did, but now it is time for me to get on your case girls. Now we should all know how to act. I know you're mother's taught you something as you were growing up. So why do we still do the same shit that they taught us against? Why must we go out and decide to act a damn fool if we see our man(or in few cases our woman) out with someone else? Are you that desperate that you got to make a public scene in front of everyone? What does that prove? I can tell you that....NOTHING!!! It just shows that you don't know how to keep your partner with you and only you....other words you not handling your business. And I know you remember your mother telling you to act like you get sense around white folks and anybody for that matter. So why do you public show that you are ignorant in front of everybody by thinking that if you make the biggest scene you are proving yourself being "gutta", "hard", or even a "bad bitch". I'm here to tell you right now that doesn't do anything but make you look even worst. Also ladies why is it that when you catch your man/woman cheating you go straight for the other like it was her fault. I see this with my friends all the time. The girls end up fighting each other while the man goes on an ego trip because he got two females going crazy over him. Why is this? Ladies, I'm sorry but if mines was to ever do something like that, I'm cutting HER. Yeah I know I'll be mad at the other girl but there is no need for me to go crazy on her when she is not the true criminal. I just find that so dumb when girls fight over a nigga that really doesn't give a shit about you if he get another girl in public, showing her off....think about it ladies! That must mean he rather be out clubbing with her than to be stuck in the house with your ass! Ladies I love you all to much to let this behavior go unnoticed. We have to do better about ourselves. Girls we have got to think about these things before before we react. I'd rather that you act cool about the bullshit if you catch him in public and then when you get home you can put all his shit and the doorstep. Don't let everyone know that you got problems at home. Act like a lady with common sense, please. Another thing the I see us women do that bothers me to the core. I can't stand to go to a store or a place of business and see a woman dressed all kinds of ways. I mean I don't expect for you to look like you just walked out of a magazine where ever you go, but I mean don't come out the house with your house shoes and holey shirts. And another thing is if you wear a certain size get that size. I hate to see women come out the house in pants that is way too tight and and fitted shirt 3 times too small to match. Sorry to tell you this but that ain't sexy booh booh. Dress like a lady if anything...to all my studs and tomboys, I'm not asking you all to dress outside of your comfort zone, but you all need to keep yourselves up just as bad as us girly girls. I hate to see these girls out here that want to be niggas so much that they loss sight of the beauty a woman holds. Grillz, chains, huge earrings, and enormous belt buckles don't make you more attractive, it only shines the light on how foolish you like. So let me wrap this up by saying ladies it has taking us too long to get the rights to be whatever we want to be, so embrace that power that we have and do better for yourself, your kids, and your future. In Love and In Truth!!!!